no silly billy post today but i really got a problem. i´m worried about my boyfriend these days ....he´s very depressed and totally introvert as of late. he´s never been a person that much in love with life but he scares me a little as of late. what should i tell him what makes life lifeable and precious? i´m a bit out of words.........




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plan a near-death experience, hell appriciate life afterwards

heh, yea, something with snakes. . . . and ninjas . . . . that would be awesome. . .OH OH and Pirates that would make me love life, just so i could tell the tale.

he might need to encounter a lion at his parents place....

:o:o:o:o life sucks...it isn't beautiful. It's full of pain and suffering!
:o:o:o:o:o

No....when I get down I look at my precious dogs, my beautiful niece or ......
thoughts of being swept away by a gorgeous dream of a man.....well, we know that's complete bullshit, but it does keep you going for a while. then reality sets in and it's back to the drawing board. I guess my next goal is to find a girlfriend who can go out with me all the time. All my friends are tied down in one way or another.

Wow! This is a tuffy. Some people just have naturally rose-colored glasses, but unfortunately the opposite exists too. Some people are just naturally bumbed. To be honest, the main thing that makes life gorgeous to me is the women in it. Since this is your boyfriend, you should just go up to him naked one day, and say, "Hey, happy-boy if this doesn't cheer you up, then you're hopeless!"

If not for any other reason, tell him to not do anything stupid for your sake. Let me tell you, suicide is fucking hard to get through.

yea dude

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If not for any other reason, tell him to not do anything stupid for your sake.

that wouldn´t stop him ..he doesn´t give a fricking fuck about how i, his family or friends are gonna react. but he´s a bit more stable again. he had those moments recently very often when he`d brake down and tell me he´d not want to nor could go on. the biggest problem and root of all unhappiness might also be the fashion school bizness. he´s working ALL DAY. he goes to school in the morning, get back around 5pm and immediately has to start working till like 1am or even till 2 or 3am. even on most weekends. not coz he´d want to but just because there is so much to do. weird also is that he won´t tell ANYONE how he feels ...not even his brother though he´s so damn close to him. if i told his bro about it, he´d not believe me and call me nuts ....maybe he´ll be better when he´s done with his apprenticeship in summer? but then again, he´s desperate on what to do then ....where to apply. whether he really wants to stick to that stupid job etc. he´d like to do poetry is what he told me .....but you can´t make ends meet like that. well, it freaks me out i can´t be there 24/7 so if he REALLY wanted to commit suicide out of a sudden, there´d be nothing i can do. i´m so scared coming home one day and finding him lifeless. i guess i´d fall in a coma or something. it would kill me ...he ´s the most precious thing on earth apart from my family and the kittens. i´ve never been with a guy for that long before ---5 years. i think he´s stable as for now but i try making him see how suicide wouldn´t solve his problems and there´s so much more to life than problems and worries and we can get through everything together.

i played him the "e-pro" video yesterday and that cheered him up a bit at least ...



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