I feel so bad right now because I just got into an argumrnt with my best friend because she is being really stupid. she keeps telling everyone that she doesn't care and junk and then she says all this bad stuff about our friend and yet she makes plans to go and hang out with her instead of me? and then she is just being dumb and i feel bad for her and i feel pitiful becuase i am still trying to be her friend because we used to be like best friends and now we aren't and i am moving in like seven months and junk and i know that you guys really don't care. but are there any words of advice?

I may have just done the worst thing in the world.

[Edited on 12/9/2004 by minimandy14]

Well why don't you guys try to talk things out, instead of arguing. The worse thing you can do is keep things inside. My bestfriend moved to Nebraska for like 2 years and when she left we were on bad terms, lemme tell you that was the lonliest time of my life. I felt so empty. Talk to her and tell her how you feel don't argue, theres no need for arguing. You guys are young, I know i'm not much older, but in a few years you guys will look back on this and realize how stupid and pity it is. Don't worry it's not the worst thing in the world although it may feel that way right now.

Sometimes you just have to let go..As much as it may suck cuz of history you have, sometimes you just start to drift apart..It's all part of growing up..I'm going through that with my best friend of 20 years..We'll always be friends, but we're not even close to the level of friendship we were when we were growing up..It's really sad..

But, listen to Turtle..Talk about it..Just tell her how you're feeling and if she's still a bitch, then screw it..She's obviously on a bitter path..Don't let her drag you down with her.. :D

well i did try to talk things out with her, i told her that i was tired of the only one thats still trying to be friends, because its true, i am always the one that asks if we wanna hang out and junk and then it makes me feel like shit becuase i feel like i am a looser because i am always the one going "do you wanna hang out" "do you wanna hang out" and i mean its kinda understandable that she is being a bitch but i just don't want to drift apart, she is such a cool person and such a cool friend, well at least she used to be before she moved to alaska and all this shit happend, which is why i understand that she isn't the same person but every time i talk to her or whatever she just pisses me off and makes me feel like shit or jealous becuase she always invites our other friend to hang out instead of me and i am always the one going "can i come too" and i am so sick of feeling like the freaking third wheel.

Ok..You have a choice in life..Surround yourself with positive people who make you feel good and make you a better person, or surround yourself with negative people who do nothing but bring you down..It's up to you now to decide if you want to be a happy or a miserable person..It sucks, but this is life..

i know that i don't want to be around people that bring me down, and she doesn't bring me down all the time i mean most of the time when we are hanging out its mostly up. but she has her reasons for bringing people down, she doesn't mean to. i know that its life, i know that i don't want to be around those people, but i am not the kind of person that just leaves really awesome cool people who happens to be my best friend because of something like that, i mean she has only been like this scince her mom past in september, and i understand that she is different becuase alot of shit has happend to her this past year, and now i feel really selfish for what i said to her, i always feel like i shouldn't be mad at her for not careing just because her mom died, i mean i was close to her mom too (i know i wasn't as close as her, duh) but i just didn't mean to blow up on her and now i wish that i hadn't, but its to late, and at the same time i am glad that i did becuase it felt good to get that out, but now i feel all selfish and sorry that i did, gah i am pitiful.